Does A mother has a right to humiliate her married son on the basis of her assumption that he is commiting haram, or does she has the right to investigate or expose his private sins that he is concealing between himself and Allah.
A mother has no right to humiliate her son on the basis of her assumption if he is innocent, nor does she has the right to investigate or expose his private sins that he is concealing between himself and Allah in a manner that destroys his marriage, reputation and honor.A person may be weak, struggling with sin, sincerely repenting, and repeatedly turning back to Allah. Allah may forgive him, or Allah may expose him in this world or the Hereafter—that authority of forgiving or exposing belongs solely to Allah, not to His creation. Allah says: And do not spy, nor backbite one another.”(Qur’an 49:12) This verse establishes a clear prohibition against tajassus (spying) and fault-finding, even when suspicion exists. The responsibility of a parent—or any believer—is only sincere advice (naṣīḥah), not investigation, exposure, or punishment. Allah says: “So remind, for you are only a reminder.You are not a controller over them.”(Qur’an 88:21–22) And Allah says: “Your duty is only to convey; t...